Top 5 Tips For Meeting Up With Your Ex (and winning them back)
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Top 5 Tips For Meeting Up With Your Ex (and winning them back)
What’s up guys, I’m Brad Browning and you are tuned in to the #1 breakup advice channel on YouTube. In this video, you’ll be learning how, when, and why to meet up with your ex in order to get them back.
Let’s begin by talking about whether or not meeting up with your ex is actually a good idea… and whether or not it can actually help you get back together. In short, the answer is YES. As I’m sure you’re already aware from watching some of my previous videos, you will likely need to meet up with your ex in person at least once or twice before you’ll be able to win them back. In fact, this is a key component of my Ex Factor program, because re-building your ex’s attraction to you is critical in order to make them want to get back together.
This kind of in-person meeting with your ex falls under the third and final step in my 3R System -- recovery, rekindling, and re-attraction. It’s extremely important that you go through the first two phases BEFORE you whip out your phone and start asking your ex to meet up. These first two steps are necessary to set the stage for your in-person meeting, and will make sure your ex says “yes” when you bring up the idea of hanging out.
At the very least, you need to re-set your ex’s perception of you by helping him or her to forget about the bad parts of your relationship and focus on the happy, nostalgic ones. You also need to make sure your ex is in what I call an “emotional neutral” state. There’s a lot more in-depth information on these initial steps in the full video on my website, BreakupBrad.com. You really need to make sure you’ve set the stage right by using the tactics in that video before you set up a “date” with your ex… so, head to BreakupBrad.com and watch the free tutorial video to learn more.
I’m going to assume at this point that you’ve already taken these initial steps, employed No Contact for the full 30 days, and begun re-establishing positive rapport with your ex. When you get to this point, it’s time to meet up with your ex in person. When it comes to actually arranging this in-person hangout with your ex, I’ve got a few important tips to share…
TIP #1: Have a real, bonafide reason for meeting your ex.
It’s almost never a good idea to simply call or text your ex out of the blue and ask them out for coffee. That kind of approach is much more likely to cause suspicion in the back of your ex’s mind, and may reveal your true motivation for wanting to meet up. To avoid this problem, you need to think of a legitimate-sounding reason to meet with your ex. It doesn’t really matter what the reason is, as long as it’s reasonable and legitimate.
For example, let’s say you’re currently in the process of starting your own business…. If your ex happened to be an accountant, then you could ask him or her to spare half an hour so you can get their advice on basic bookkeeping for your new company.
Or maybe your ex was great at interior design, and you’re planning on renovating your basement suite… you could send them a text asking if they’d be willing to meet briefly to give you some tips on choosing paint colours and furniture for the suite.
These are just quick examples off the top of my head, but really the possibilities here are endless. What really matters is that you have a legitimate-sounding reason for asking your ex to meet up, and you’re not just randomly suggesting it out of the blue for no good reason. Trust me, if you have a reasonable-sounding excuse for the meet-up, you’re much more likely to get your ex on board with the idea.
TIP #2: Don’t try to do too much too quickly.
The last thing you want to do is set off alarm bells in your ex’s head when you propose an in-person meet-up… like I mentioned earlier, you want to avoid revealing your true intentions or trying to move too quickly.
Don’t suggest spending the entire weekend with your ex for the first time you meet in person after breaking up… in fact, I don’t even recommend going for dinner or doing anything more than meeting for coffee for half an hour.
Lastly, don’t refer to this meet-up as a “date” or give the impression that there’s anything remotely romantic about the hang-out. If your ex senses a trap or thinks that the meet-up will be anything extensive or overly dramatic, they’ll likely decline the invite… so, keep it very casual and ensure that your suggestion to meet in person sounds like it’ll be brief and enjoyable.
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