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Falling in love has many stages, if you don't understand them, it can be easy to get ahead of yourself.
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I'm going to walk you through every single step a man goes through to falling in love, and by the way, not every single step is created equal.
How Men Fall In Love With a Women: 5 Psychological Steps #1
The first step is physical attraction. I'll never forget when I first met Jessica, geez, almost five years ago, at a bar on New Year's Day, and she was friends of a group of my friends, and I saw her, and the very first thing I realized, is, of course, she's gorgeous, but as well she just had this energy that just radiated out of her. My very first thought was she's totally out of my league. Not only was she beautiful, but she was fun, and she was friendly. I didn't know that existed anymore.
For all you sexy, single ladies who are spending way too much time on your hair and your makeup and your perfume, on all that stuff, I'm here to tell you, put that stuff aside right now, and instead focus on bringing that energy, that positive energy, to a conversation. Men will be just magnetically drawn to it, just like I was with Jessica. And yes, we are getting married next August. So it worked.
How Men Fall In Love With a Women: 5 Psychological Steps #2
Step number two is emotional attraction. Building emotional attraction with somebody is all about that chemistry. Like when you first meet somebody for the first time, and you click with one another. Have you ever met someone for the first time, and it just feels like you have known that person for the past ten years of your life? You can not stop connection on different things you have in common. If you've ever experienced that before, comment below, saying, "It's all about the chemistry."
How Men Fall In Love With a Women: 5 Psychological Steps #3
The next phase that men go through when it comes to falling in love is the bonding phase. This phase usually comes around that three to six-month mark of a relationship, where it's no longer new, you no longer have this neuro peripherin, and this love chemicals flowing through your veins of this new love relationship, and now is getting real. And this is a good thing, by the way. This is where you get to know the real person behind that shield that everyone puts up early on in the relationship.
How Men Fall In Love With a Women: 5 Psychological Steps #4
Step number four is compatibility. This, I would say, is the least fun part of falling in love. But, if you get this wrong, then the whole relationship can entirely fall apart. Discovering whether or not you are compatible is all about discovering, do you have the same shared values? Do you have the same religious values? Do you want to live in the same place? Do you have the same vision for the future of your life? These are the types of questions that you want to be taking a look at before you make any big decisions such as living together, getting married, having children together. Because the relationships that don't think about this, and kind of stuff it under the rug and don't think about all these issues that they have, it falls apart in the future.
How Men Fall In Love With a Women: 5 Psychological Steps #5
The final phase of how men fall in love is an unwavering lifetime commitment. This is when a person decides that everything is aligned, and they are ready to commit their life to that person. Not only are they emotionally prepared, but this is the person they want to spend the rest of their life with. And depending on where you are in your life, and how old you are, and under your circumstances, this can take different people a different amount of time. Some people take a couple of years to get there.
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